In his comments to the post “Are we wrong?” Moderate states, “And I often wonder, as a priest I know has said, if homosexuality is the wrong foxhole to die in, in the larger conflict with relativism/pluralism.”
I would concur completely. This has been my opinion since the Righter (non)Trial in the ‘90s. I always thought that those who brought changes against Bishop Righter chose both the wrong target and the wrong issue. If there were to be a trial it should have been involving a different bishop from a mid-Atlantic state for out and out heresy.
That being said, a few comments are in order.
Soldiers don’t get to choose the front they have to defend. I am certain that the 101st Airborne would have preferred to defend Einhoven rather than Bastogne. And Lee did not wish to have to defend the line near the Hagerstown Pike and the Dunker Church. The proper front was lost probably when Jim Pike got a mild slap of the hand in the late ‘60s. (This has been Philip Turner’s point.)
I recall that Churchill called WWII an “unnecessary war,” not in the sense that it should not have been fought, but that Hitler should have been confronted long before September 1939. Similarly, we are at this point because we did not adequately defend the faith earlier. This is an unnecessary battle in that sense.
The shame of having to defend this front (and I mean “shame” in the strongest possible senses here, not just “unfortunate”) is also expressed by Moderate earlier in his comment: “However the central question is a bit hard for me to deny, and it is one I wrestle with, knowing as I do a few faithful GLBT members of the church (well GL at least). Their position is hard to deny, and I do find myself wondering if I am wrong in denying it.” The shame is that this current presenting issue hit a certain segment of our church and society in such a personal way. I remember having to tell a woman that I could not perform or support her union with her partner. She was new to the congregation and she came to me with vulnerability and hope. It was deeply disappointing for her when I said I could not. The further background of the current crisis in the church placed this encounter within a larger context where we were players in a global drama.
Had we faced the theological crisis earlier, might have we avoided the pain of such encounters? Who can know? But certainly arriving at this juncture has foreclosed a certain level of pastoral connection that might otherwise been possible if the situation had not become so focused upon an issue that is so very personal.